I have seen many people around me who’re always unhappy for their situation . Let me clear it with an example , Let us suppose any person ‘A’ , is a student and do nothing except roaming aimlessly , bunking classes and then there is another person ‘B’ , who is working and earning a six figure salary and is unhappy . Now , I know most of the people will say that person ‘B’ is lucky , earning a six figure salary and what do he need more ?! But .. But my dear , that’s where you’re wrong . At some point He met person ‘A’ and starts thinking and comparing himself with him like ” He is a student , and has a option to pursue his dreams ….” etc …etc… While person ‘A’ starts comparing himself with person ‘B’ . A funny situation but at the same time TRUE .
The only similarity between these two are that they both think that they don’t have time and that’s what is the definition of Aimless Wondering . Now as you have understand a little bit about the story , I’ll tell you , what happened that moved me to write this post ! I won’t reveal the exact name , so in this story let us suppose her name to be ‘Amara’
I was in 8th class , when I first met Amara . I do remember her as the round face , short height ( approximately 5 feet , coz she was shorter than me somehow) and a wheat-ish complexion but one thing I disliked about her appearance was her pierced nose . Obviously , in rural backgrounds it’s common but it never suited her according to me . Her life was a terrible tragedy . She wasn’t treated well in her family , because she was adopted . Actually , when she was juvenile , her father ( so called) adopted her from his elder brother as he wasn’t getting any kids . But after 4 years of her adoption , his wife had a child then two years later another . So , Amara was completely neglected and even now treated as servant by her foster mother . When her biological parents tried to get her back , they denied . So , that’s how her life was been . Its like that when need is over who you are to me ?
By the way , we all are here just because of Destiny and her destiny , only god knows . When we were in 11th class , she had dreamed of becoming a historian but ended up with me in 11th medical . Her foster Dad was an Army person . He was on duty most of the times on border and the only reason she was with them was that he loved Amara , like his real daughter unlike his wife . His dream was to see her becoming a world class surgeon . She agreed in order to see his dad happy but the burden was killing her day by day . One thing she used to mention me was that , ” Pari , I know one thing , if I became a doctor , he would be happy and i want to see him happy” she said with lot of enthusiasm but as the time passed by dialogue remained the same but her excitement decreased . After 12th class , she went to Delhi for MBBS coaching in Akash Institute . There she struggled to fulfill her father’s dream and whenever she called me she tried to compare her life with my life that I got my book published , I am pursuing my dreams but her dream was forbidden . It irritated me a lot , and I started getting her negative vibes . I tried to motivate her but her mind wasn’t ready to accept her current situation and work on it . Soon , I got a news that she was found dead in her hostel room by drug overdose , while her room mate was on vacation to her home . It is still a shock to me that she used to do drugs . She once said she wanted to become a famous person . She indeed remained in the headlines for weeks , but the cause was her suicide ….
I am sharing with all of you the letter which I wrote her when she was probably sane .. ..
DEAR AMARA ,
Life is the most precious gift . I have heard it somewhere that ‘ don’t compare your chapter 1 with anyone’s chapter 20 but Amara not everybody’s chapter 1 is same . As all five fingers of your hand are not the same , so as everyone’s destiny . Sometimes God tests you , punishes you as well for your negative behaviour and for most all tests that if the soul is ready to receive abundance or not ! God never puts you in a situation in which your life will be spoiled . Sometimes you are just on a different path but journey is same. Don’t be upset as results are not visible above the surface but god is working in a way you will be shocked in future . Its the duty of negativity to bring our positive vibration down but Its our duty to face it with enthusiasm and say to the devils who want to bring us down that ” You can’t win Devil . I believe in god and come what may in the way , I know I’m getting what I desired all the way!” .
Have faith , you know even Colonel Sanders completed his dream at the age of 65 and now KFC is a brand . There is no need to compare their wealth with yours . You have to take motivation from them that if they can , I can , no matter come what may! But only to achieve your pure bliss ….
YOURS TRULY ,
STAY BLESSED , STAY POSITIVE AND KEEP SMILING 🙂